Gay Sex Is The New Blow Job – Sexography


Straight guys are seeking pleasure from gay men more and more.

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“I wouldn’t mind if you sucked my dick,” Aaron declared with a devilish smile as we talked about being single. Up to that point, he had never indicated he was anything other than heterosexual. Even when we had been drunk together, his penis seemed to be for vagina enjoyment only. This was a total shock.

When pushed to clarify what he meant, Aaron doubled down. “You on your knees with my dick in your mouth. You’ve done it a thousand times with other guys,” he didn’t understand why I was surprised. When I told him I thought he was the one straight guy friend I had that would not be interested in gay sex, he laughed.

He told me that many hetero guys want to experiment with guys but are afraid to be labeled as gay. Furthermore, he added, that almost every man wants anal sex and he would challenge any guy that said he didn’t. There’s more to it though.

After my conversation with Aaron, it seemed prudent to check out the facts with other straight men. A divorced man answered the question about having sex with other men, despite identifying as straight. He asked to remain anonymous, so we will call him Mr. Divorce. “Between work and my kids, I don’t have time for a girlfriend. Nor do I want one. So, I go to the gay bar and bring home guys. There’s no commitment required.”

Many straight guys have dealt with being accused of only “wanting one thing” before but Mr. Divorce seems to be confirming the accusation. Other straight men chimed in and agreed with the assessment. When told that gay guys also wanted commitment, they unanimously agreed. The men they had slept with or talked about having sex with hadn’t pushed them for anything more than one night.

Even better according to Aaron, no date is required. Guys, he explained don’t always want to go through the trouble of going to dinner and whatnot, on the off chance they might get laid. By having a gay fuck buddy or going to the gay bar, straight guys were stacking the deck in their favor.

Along the lines of not wanting to work for sex, Aaron admitted that gay men are more apt to perform oral sex. “Sometimes I don’t want to have sex, sometimes I just want a bj. Girls aren’t into giving head all that much.” This seemed to be a very generalized assumption.

Several of my female friends were asked and despite them saying they don’t mind giving head, the faces they made betrayed their true feelings. When pressed, they admitted that sucking dick wasn’t their favorite thing to do. Most stopped doing it after being in a long-term relationship.

Mr. Divorce said the minute he proposed to his ex-wife, she stopped having sex with him on a regular basis. The first time he got a bj was from a friend of his. “One night my buddy and I were drinking. I knew he was bi but I didn’t know he could suck dick until that night.” Allegedly, Mr. Divorce confessed to his ex about being blown by his friend. She shrugged it off and said as long as it wasn’t a woman, it wasn’t cheating. After that, he admits to seeking out men for pleasure.

“For me, gay sex was the new blow job. I had always wanted anal sex but getting it from the wife was next to impossible. These guys were throwing their asses into my dick and begging for it. Of course I indulged.” Mr. Divorce.

FYI, the women asked said they would not support their men sleeping with anyone else outside of the relationship. Man or woman.

When Aaron was asked about his request and his sexual identity, he shrugged it off. “Sometimes I want my dick sucked. Sometimes I want some ass. Sometimes I’m just bored and will fuck anything that walks, you can quote me on that.” This was not entirely unheard of, though the last time the excuse was used was with a gay man and a straight woman.

Mr. Divorce also admitted that being bored leads him to have sex with men more often. “It’s less of a challenge to grab another guy and have my way with them. Once a guy is in my house, his ass is guaranteed to be mine. Less time pursuing and more time for pleasure.” When asked if he thought perhaps he was a latent bisexual, he said not at all. While he enjoyed the physical activity with men, he did not see himself ever dating a man or sleeping with the same one twice.

Aaron, on the other hand, agreed that there might be something to him being bisexual. It was something he needed to dig deeper into, and he wanted to sleep with a few guys before settling on being bi. “I know it sounds weird but what if one guy is just good in bed? I need to know if I really like sex with men or if it’s just one man.”

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